Winter - Spring 2018

It's mid March, but this is what mid December should look like: snowy and windy. This winter-spring has been one of the most challenging times of my life, not because it was hard or anything bad,  but because it was quiet, really quiet.

My stressful job with my previous employer left me questioning myself and I felt like I was loosing grip of my life and self.

It's a challenge to keep calm and be positive when you're depressed and unhappy with your life. Most effective treatment is to evaluate yourself, bin your worries and negative thoughts, and with baby steps, continue your journey while doing"you", make whatever makes you happy and helping others achieve their dreams.

We're all dust in the wind...

@westlondon

Heir

As a child, I thought my parents are super heroes that are capable of anything and nothing can stand in their way. I still think the same today. Soon, time will come for me to be the superhero of my kids' life. Am I ready? Am I going to be a great father and a loving spouse? Are my knowledge and values worth spreading? We'll see.

Adevăruri efemere

George, petreci prea mult gândindu-te la zilele trecute și regizându-ți prezentul, tânjind după discuții profunde și gesturi intime din partea oricărei persoane care îți vorbește sau care îți răspunde mai repede, sperând că aceea va vrea să îți deschidă ușa viitorului ei.

Când ea va fi disponibilă, ia-o de mână și trage-o în brațele tale, sa isi așeze capul pieptul tău, apoi lasă ca in tacerea camerei sa auda bataile inimii tale care se liniștește. Mangaie-o pe cap si spune-i lucruri adevărate invat-o sa gaseasca pace in sufletul ei, iar cand te va întreba de ce tii la ea, sa ii spui ca "dintr-un interes profund si o bucurie sfanta" de-ai fi aproape in orice clipa. Poate, poate vei primi ceea ce iti doresti: o persoana alaturi de care sa iti creezi un viitor. Nu trebuie neapărat sa fie ea, cea care iti sta in brate, pentru că poate a doua zi aceasta va inceta sa îți vorbeasca, dar tu fi fericit pentru ca ai avut un moment de sinceritate cu tine si ai sadit in pamantul vietii tale semintele unei recolte bogate, ce va fi sa vina doar daca vei avea rabdare si vei lucra spre folosul ei.

Suntem intr-o constanta căutare de suflete care sa fie binecuvantate de prezența noastră si alaturi de care sa devenim mai puternici. Daca nu am mai construi ziduri ci am contrui poduri intre noi, poate am avea mai mult curaj sa ne ștergem lacrimile si am înceta să mai credem in adevaruri efemere.

În porumb

- David...
- Rox, unde esti?
- ... pe câmp ...
- Dă-mi te rog un pin cu adresa.
- Ooof!
- Rox!
- Bine. Adu-mi te rog o cafea.
Simțeam că leșin. Imi vomitasem stomacul pe drum iar acum nu mai știam unde sunt. Ieșisem desculță din casă ca să iau aer, când m-a sunat prostul. M-am îndreptat spre poartă, ca acolo era semnalul mai bun. Rețeaua vieții! M-a ținut cam 40 de minute la telefon să îmi povestească cum m-a înșelat el pentru că mă iubește. Auzi la el! Prostu' pământului! Ce penibil! Ce căcănar!
M-am oprit din mers pentru că mai aveam doar 2% baterie și-mi era că dacă mă îndepărtez, dorm în lanul de porumb pentru că David sigur nu mă mai găsea! Când a venit el, terminasem de plâns, stăteam în țărână și mă feream de țânțari.
- Inutile insectele astea! Ti-am spus că le urăsc?
- În fiecare vara. Mergi?
- Da. Ajuta-ma te tog să mă scutur.
- Esti sigură? Că dacă încep eu să dau...
- S-ar putea să îmi placă, știu. Dar insist.
- Bine, dar să nu chemi mâine știrile să te plângi că te-am bătut și violat, pentru că sigur n-or să te bage în seamă dacă nu ești bătrână din Vaslui. Bătrână ești, dar nu din Vaslui.
- Ca tu ești tare departe rău de groapă! Dă-mi o țigară.
- N-am. Uiți că m-am lăsat?
- Ah! da...
- Ia o guma. Ia zi, ce facem de revelion?
- Omule, e 26 iulie! Du-mă acasă, te rog.
- La cine?
As fi vrut să ii spun ca la EL, fostul meu, dar sigur mi-ar fi tras un dos de palmă și m-ar fi dat cu capul de bord.
- Hai să luăm semințe și du-mă până la Predeal. Unde mi-e cafeaua?
- E în spate pe jos. Vezi să n-o dărâmi, căutând așa ploaia ca tuta!
- Gata, merci. Dau un covrig la Comarnic?
- Doi.
Am dat drumul la radio, mi-am întins scaunul și mă uitam la David cum conducea. Aveam pentru el un respect și o teamă sfântă. Omul asta ma știa de 5 ani și m-a tolerat cu toate prostiile mele. Bine, m-a șters el de câteva zeci de ori din agenda și de pe feisbuc, dar n-am pus la suflet. Asa făcea cu toată lumea pe care o simpatiza și care nu ii răspundea după cum voia el. Nu cred că m-a vrut vreodată de iubită, pentru că omul știa că sunt tută si cu capul în găleată, dar mi-a zis că mă vrea aproape de el ca să știe că-s bine și nu fac prostii. Ăsta era stilul lui, protectiv de fel și vorbea cu toată lumea: urâte frumoase, singure, măritate, nu conta pentru ca el căută să aibă oameni de calitate și încredere în jur.
- Rox, schimbăm și noi muzica asta? Am senzația că aud broaștele cum râd de noi.
- David, ia cu paine!
- Merci, dar sunt sătul. Schimbi, te rog?
- Bine, bine. Ia zi-mi, pe cine ai mai vrăjit?
- Pe nimeni.
- Haide măi! Pe bune?! Tu, Pețitorul Primăverii, Sburătorul Verilor și Soba Iernilor, n-ai agățat nimic?
- Nimic.
- Tristule!
- Dar am fost agățat.
- Știam eu! Varsă tot!
- O colegă de muncă ne-a tot invitat la ea la semințe și bere. Tipă faină, înaltă, roșcată, ochi verzi, 23 de ani, ASE terminat, tatăl avocat și mama doctor, trăiește de capul ei fără ajutorul părinților într-o​ garsonieră din Berhattan.
- Unde-i asta?
- Adică Berceni.
- Aha. Continuă.
- Nu ne adunam mulți, de obicei 4-5 și încingeam o șeptică, spărgeam semințe, făceam mișto de cine apărea pe la televizor...
- Dar de ce vorbești la trecut?
- Ai răbdare. Într-o seară, Sâmbăta trecută mai exact, eram doar noi doi în bucătărie si împărțeam un joint.
- Drogatule!
- Merci. Și ea ma întreabă "Ia zi tu mie de ce nu te-ai agățat de nicio tipă din birou, când avem atâtea oferte bune? Urât nu ești, prost sigur nu ești, deși am dubii în privința sănătății tale mentale..."
- Si ce i-ai zis?
- Că încă n-am găsit ceva care să mă stârnească suficient de mult, cum că trebuie să cunosc bine fata inainte și că nu ...
- Prooost!
- La care ea îmi spune "Și dacă ți-aș spune că ești un bărbat mișto și ca vreau să te sodomizez puțin la noapte?"
- Și?!?
- Și i-am mulțumit și am zis ca e un compliment foarte fain, dar nu vreau să îmi bat joc...
- Dă-te jos!
- Huh?
- Oprește mașina și DĂ-TE JOS!
Imediat ce a oprit, am coborât și m-am dus pe partea lui, am deschis ușa, s-a dat jos și i-am dat o palma tare, tare de mă ustura rău palma.

Tampon

Apoi ia-ți timp și recompune-te. Ai nevoie de o perioadă de tampon, între acțiune și reacție, în care să înțelegi ce ai de făcut. Imaginează-ți că te arzi și că te doare, apoi înveți să suporți durerea și să o ignori treptat.

Dacă ne uităm in trecut, zidurile cetăților serveau de multe ori ca tampon, astfel încât locuitorii să aibă o tranziție între viața cotidiană și starea de asediu, oferindu-le​ suficient timp cât să își adune armele si să se apere.

Când cineva te lovește, întreabă-l prima data de ce, apoi apără-te. Apară-te cu tact, astfel încât să aștepte cu drag întâlnirea cu dracu'.

Să te duci la somn cu gândul că ai făcut tot ce ai putut. Să ai calmul necesar de a nu fii zguduit de ura și reproșurile celor din jur. Să te respecți suficient de mult încât să nu te iei la ceartă cu ei.

Să vezi în tine o persoană capabilă să facă din noapte, zi. Să crezi în tine și să îți creezi un viitor atunci când lumea aruncă cu pământ și pietre.

Ascultă-le tâmpeniile și răspunde-le doar după ce au terminat toți de vorbit. Prezintă faptele și argumentează-ți fiecare pas, astfel încât să vadă că nu pot să te bântuie cu prostiile lor. Apară-te cu aceeași pasiune pentru viață și tărie cu care s-a luptat a treia maimuță să urce pe Arca lui Noe. Oh! Cerul tună și începe să picure!

@london
#220buswansworthtohammersmith

About weddings

Getting through the week is sometimes challenging. My Spanish teacher used to say that if Monday is gone, the whole week is gone.
I love Mondays and Friday evening feels like a mini-holiday.

There are few more weeks until my sister is getting married in Church and I can't wait for that day to finish with smiles and blessings from Above.

Not long ago I didn't believe in the institution of marriage, but once I read the laws and what God gives to and expects from the couple, I realized that is a celebration and official statement of what should already be there: love.
I'm not keen of big weddings, that are very expensive, because I seen no point in waisting £50-150k for just one day, when you could use that money to buy a mortgage.

My kind of wedding is on a Friday afternoon, just few hours before the sunset, in the mountains next to a lake, where the couple shares stories about their love and plans of the future, what they're hopeing to achieve together and how everyone present will have the responsibility to help them achieve their goals.

Wedding shouldn't be a statement of wealth, but more of an expression of love and identity of the couple. If your wedding is kitsch, is because you are so.

There is no point in having 300 guests that you don't know, but 20 that mean the world to you.

Couples should always seek to have both religious and legal communion.

Tube Thoughts 28-29 617

TheEverday is an opportunity to do more and as long as you're breathing, you still have a chance to change your life for the better.

Some people say this blog depresses them, others love it and quite a few find it interesting. Spend some time here and decide for yourself.

I started writing in English because of my international friends, whom I love and respect very much. Wish I could have a cup of coffee with you all today!

I believe in science and God, because one explains what the other can't do it in words. They complete each other.

I've said it and I'll say it again: having the right kind of people next to you is a blessing.

Admitting your faults can sometimes work against you, but it takes courage to do so. One of my weaknesses is getting up early in the morning. I'm not a morning person, so I need 3 alarms to wake up.

There was a time in my life when I used to be late to every appointment or date that I've had, but being annoyed by the other people being late. Now I've changed and I like to be on time and I really appreciate when I don't have to chase the other person 50 times by text/call to confirm a date/appointment.

I have people that I look up to. I have people that I admire. I have people that I don't like, but I don't hate them. I don't have idols and I'm not into sports, music or grouping. I don't have preferred things or colours that I can't live without; I just like stuff that is good, well made, great priced and makes me feel better.

I believe that a great partner completes  you and doesn't want to change you because feels that you're enough. A good partner will want to build a strong team of two so you can rule the world together. Of course looks are important! Of course money are important, but not in the way people think that money bring you the happiness and way of life that will compensate for feeling unwanted or unloved.

Know your God

Most people who dream about Heaven and a New Earth have no ideea what it mean. They want to escape this grey world to a heaven where gold is everywhere and life is peaceful and bliss. Most of their reasons are selfish, and they think that one can get there by doing good deeds, or by not eating meat or by going to bed at 9 pm or by bombing 50 infidels.

What if you get there, but God is missing?
What if you don't even care who's there, as long as you're there and you have no more wars, hunger or pain?
A heaven without God doesn't sound like heaven at all. More like Bali, Swisserland or any other perfect place where money bring you everything you could possibly want. Heaven is where God is. It can be anywhere, as long as He's there with you.

You have to be responsible and disciplined with yourself in order to be able to help others, and since this an ongoing process, it's always the right time to be kind and care for those around you.
Start with what you have and you can build on it. Do everything you can now, and as long as you're breathing you have a chance of knowing more and more about God.

The only way to go to heaven is by having a person connection with Him. And that is grace. Prayer is a talk, a chat between you and your heavenly father. You don't need to spend hundreds of hours on your knees, because He is everywhere and loads of conversations can happen between you two throughout the day. Even now.
Let's pray!

Wait for it (617LDN)

"The Wait" is strongly conected with the will and obedience. Is your choice to wait when someone tells you to do so, and your mind in less than a second evaluates if you should listen or follow your own will, because when you're waiting you're following someone else's will and schedule.

WE'LL KEEP IN TOUCH
As a teenager I wanted to believe the girl telling me that we need to wait for the right time to be together, but I always knew that it was only a polite "NO".
When I grew up a bit, I discovered that recruitment agencies and companies use the same tactics​ when they don't​ want you to work there.

NOT NOW
There are cases when waiting doesn't necessarily mean a NO. For example, your driving license: it's not instant, you have to learn and work hard to get it. When you're a kid and want to grow up, it doesn't happen over night. Oh! and what a tragedy it is when you grow up to quick!

Sometimes things happen even though​  you didn't wait for them, like getting old or your exams... or the seasons... or just the sunset.

HOW TO WAIT
I believe in constant-proactive-wait, where you're constantly getting ready and prepare for whatever comes next, so when it's here, it doesn't catch you by surprise. For this you need a clear mind, peace inside your soul and faith.

Imagine if the race dogs would look around and think that the cage is their tomb... and there's no more hope for them... But no, they're ready to run for their lives once the gates are open!

When you're stuck, you should make yourself ready for when the opportunity arrives, to start working twords your dreams and goals. Build your tools, read your books, know people, make your bed and get ready to upgrade yourself! Because you don't know where life will take you in 1, 3, 15 years from now.

Are you ready?
Good.
Now wait for it!

London and days of terror (617)

I don't know about you, but I miss a lot of people and a lot of places from back home. Yes, I miss Romania, but there's not much to do as Landscape Architect because people don't understand the need for consultancy or proper design for the outdoors.

I'm going to stay in England as long as I can, but this terror attacks and Brexit don't make it easy at all...

Just 1h before yesterday's attacks I've crossed London Bridge with my cousin and we were looking for a place to park near Borough Market and walk adound there, but all parking spots were full and rain started so we decided to go home.

I trust in God and I know He's in control and keeps us safe. A lot of people blame God for allowing people to die in violent situations or in hunger, or innocent childrens to die of AIDS or cancer... I don't have yet a proper answer to explain why He allows it, but when I do, I'll share it with you. If you could see the bigger picture, without emotions of feelings involved... Zoom out a bit and you might get your answer.

"Yeah, but it's easy to trust God when you live in a nice house where you have food to eat and you're healthy!" Guys, EACH OF US has periods of time when we'd be better off dead than alive, but God is good enough to keep us alive and strong to see the end of days, when we'll have answers​ for all our questions. As long as you breathe, you can still change your life and know your God.

I can tell that my life wasn't always easy, but He is here for me and helps me see the whole picture, and walks step by step beside me. I'm praying for all of us.

Midlife crisis

When you're a teenager, you imagine life at a level that makes you dream big about making a difference, with personal happiness and noble achievements. You are genuine about your thoughts and you embrace your uniqueness, so you start living according to your hopes and dreams.

Then you get to your late 20 or early 30, you start realising that your dream life is different from your reality.

You look at your high school or university colleagues and see happy families with kids, pets and trips around the world. But you got nothing like that.

You try talking to your friends and they keep bragging about their accomplishments and money. But you got nothing like that.

You feel betrayed and unhappy, so you want to give up. You feel like not having made the most of your future.

Your needs are different.

You want inner peace and a clean conscience, and this can't be bought...

Life is never as expected.

People will always disappointed you and you will always need some time off reality.

The key is to learn living with your mistakes and failures. And you got Heaven's help on that.

You must love and accept yourself as you are so you can be able to help others and love them as the total disasters they are.

Make the most of your life, as it is! You can do this!

Another you

We do a lot of stupid stuff because we don't know how to cope with reality. We are crazy enough to think we are entitled to act like headless chickens, as if the world should give us a free pass just because we're in love.

Existence seems cruel when you can't get what you want.

In love we tend to aim too high, promising forever love and endless hugs, but we all end up empty inside and with wet faces.

Being fed up with life is also one of the signs that you don't know what love is. More and more people post their edited love stories on the walls they've built to separate themselves from the peasants, and once the loved one is gone, their cruel existence is trapped between cold and coloured walls.

You're sitting with your eyes open in front of the mirror hoping to catch a glimpse of your dead soul, and looking for another you. Now that your past ended and you've let go of all that was holding you back, you can start behaving like the person you wanted to be and needed when you were younger.

1 second before

The next station is 'Gloucester Road. Change with the Circle Line.'

Some days are better than others, some people are better than others, not because they're special (all are the same), but because of what they do or what you do with them. Technically,  all your days are the same. They're just days. But you are changing because of what you do, what you think and how you react to someone else's action against you.

For most people being good or bad is a choice. In less than a second, your brain is asking you: 'Should we go ape style or should we keep calm down?' And then you choose according to your preference of the evaluated consequences. Some people don't know how to cope with loses or high intensity emotions. Others do.

What about you?

The girls you chase are mean

Have the courage to tell the one you like about how you feel. Do it in a nice way, calm and balanced. Be kind and don't worry about the reply. What's the worst thing that can happen? Ignorance, but that's bliss because it's better to try and be refused than chicken out. If they reject you based on your height, weight or facial hair... be happy that you will not waste your time with them.

(I hope this story will help you. Somehow)

- Dave, let me buy you a coffee. I need to share this with you.

- What did you do?

- Nothing. It's just a memory from about 10-12 years ago.

- Surprise me!

- So there was this tall blue eye blonde girl that I liked. I've seen her in church and I thought it would be ok if I could talk to her, but she made me be really nervous around her. One day I man up and approach her:

"- Hi. Sorry to bother.

- Hi.

- I know this is church but I wonder if you'd like to go out for a cup of tea sometime next week.

- How dare you?! Can't you see how you look?! And were at church! I'm busy and sorry, I have to go."

As she went, I put a fake smile on my face and I was trying my best to hold the tears from coming. I was ashamed of myself. I wasn't the best looking man but certainly I was not a beast.

Years after, I find her on Facebook and add her as friends. She declines it so I message her: "Maybe you don't remember me, but we used to go to the same church."

- You crazy bastard! Did she reply?

- Yeah she did. She said "Probably. Wait. Are you Ana's brother?

- Yes I am.

- Good. Add me again so we can talk more."

- What is wrong with you?

- Everything. So we start texting, I get to know her a bit more, she's really smart, she likes my stories, laughs at my stupid jokes and one day she agrees to meet and invites me to her place.

- Excuse me?!

- Yup. So I go there, makes a cup of tea, we talk about life and when emotions are high, she hugs me.

- Sorry, what?!

- She hugs me hard and starts crying. We were just laying​ there, on her bed, hugging and crying about memories.

- You're joking!... Did you smoke anything?

- Nothing. Anyways, long story short, soon after I go home, later we start dating, I ask her to marry me two-three weeks later...

- Can you please repeat? I think I'm going deaf.

- Yes, I've asked her to marry me.

- And let me guess, she ran away.

- Indeed...

- I knew you're stupid, and until now I had no idea of how much that means.

- Yeah, probably. So she stopped replying, shuts off and gets back with her ex. They got engaged and last year they've had this amazing wedding.

- Unbelievable!

- Is it?

- It's unbelievable how stupid you are when it comes to women!

- Don't tell me it never happened to you!...

- The closest I've been was when I told a girl that I don't want to fool around and I want us to have a proper relationship. Later she went home and refused to reply to all my future attempts of contacting her.

- It's the same.

- No it's not! I never tried to marry her in  our first month! Anyways... Some other time stupid me fancied a girl that used to date one of my mates, and we met after it ended and she enquired me about my behaviour as a boyfriend, so I started doing a SWOT analysis in a McDonald's while writing her name in sugar.

- Is she hot?

- Yes she is, and classy too. But she loves to be in the center of attention as Prima Donna and all her fans would've been left crying if she started dating again.

- The girls you chase are mean.

- Look who's talking!

- Well, at least I had the guts to tell her how I really feel.

- Don't confuse guts with stupidity!

- Dave, what is wrong with us?

- Nothing mate! When you're desperate and available, girls see it and avoid you by all means.

- I'm not desperate.

- I know you're not, but that's how they see us.

- How we're supposed to communicate? They never start conversations, they just wait for Prince Charming to take them to the castle on an unicorn.

- It's not you.

- The unicorn?

- No. Prince Charming.

- Maybe...

- I'm not gonna blame you for trying, just be more selective. Girls decide who is the lucky winner, so you just have to try until you succeed. Do it with style. Make her want you before asking her out. Dress smart and listen to them. When you talk, it has to be as easy and an natural as with your mother or sister. Be present, enjoy the moment and it's her choice to reply. You can't change people's minds, but you can enjoy life and do good.

Punch hard and steady

-Where are you?
- In a hotel, in Romania. What's going on?
- I'm dying.
- Aren't we all?
- I mean like now.
- What happened?
- She left me! he starts to cry.
- What?!? But you were engaged...
- She packed her bags and left 10 minutes ago. She cheated on me man! Oh.. And now she's moving in with that bastard! 
- Wow!
- For almost 2 months she cheated on me and I didn't even realised it! Man, I don't know what to do anymore! I feel like punching someone... and... uhm... man, I'm dying! I can't take this!
- You've been here before, so try to calm down. You need to control yourself and have a clear mind. Can you go swim?
- I don't know...
- I know it's Easter time and all might be closed, but go to the gym and swim for couple of hours. Then go upstairs and bunch those bags. Let your anger there and hit hard and steady, as if you're fighting for your life.
- I can't...
- Yes you can! You have to!
- She cheated on me...
- And now you have to let go of her and control yourself. You're gonna get over it in no time if you stay focused on your future.
- Easier said than done.
- I know you've got this!
- How do you know?
- Don't ask stupid questions. I have to go now. I'm waited downstairs.
- Ok, go. Everyone is leaving me.
- Man, focus! Don't let your emotions control your actions. Stay strong. I'll text later to check on you. Bye now.

Home visit

2nd night home and I can't sleep. Why?

A lot of memories go through my head. They remind me of my beginnings and I can see how far God has taken me and how I became a man. I grew up so much and I say: "Thank you Father for giving me the strength and wisdom to get here. Thank you for my family. Please keep me healthy so I can do more!"

Trust more.

Help more.

Be more!

Tall

I love being tall and I wish people would stop treating us like we're the smaller sibling of the giraffe.

Everytime I see a tall person (above 6'4") I keep falling in love with myself and this amazing gift from God. As a child I remember praying "Please help me grow up and stand tall like a mountain" and He was kind enough to listen to that innocent prayer.

Being 6'6" (198cm) is hard only when it comes to:
- clothes: only couple of brands have acceptable apparel;
- shoes: only few brands make size 13.5 UK (48);
- ladies: even though I might love a 5'4" she might find it awkward to date a poplar;
- cars: I love Porsche or Mini, but chances of me ever owning one are zero;
- low level ceiling: a real problem;
- regular airplane seats: I hate those bastards!
- bed: anything below king size is a struggle. But I got used to sleeping with my feets out of the bed...

I could moan about a lot more, but I get used to designers not having giraffes in mind when they work on a new product, and I always find a work-around.

Stand tall brothers and sisters!

The Sun, the Planets and The Universe

My dear friend,

If you are a star, then you are the Sun. If you are the Sun, then your kids are the planets revolving around you. If you are the Sun and your kids are the planets, then your lovely wife is the Universe that makes everything happen.

God bless you!

Ganduri din metrou 21317

Sa ajungi la varsta in care sa nu stii ce vrei...

Sa fi incercat toate slujbele disponibile si sa realizezi ca nimic nu iti place, dar ai cateva domenii in care poti excela, desi inima ta nu ar fi acolo.

Sa fi iubit femei din toate colțurile țării si sa fi descoperit ca drama si pasiunea sunt omniprezente, pentru ca ne fac sa ne simțim în viață. Intr-un cuplu, nu sexul este cel mai intim, pentru ca este doar un proces tehnic, ci vulnerabilitatea de a sta dezbrăcat de tine si la îndemână celui care sta inaintea ta, care te poate rani inimaginabil, care te poate pretui ca pe opera de arta sau te poate imbraca in iubirea lui.

Increderea este ca un baraj pe care rabdarea il umple cu dragoste. Barajul fisurat se poate repara, dar e costisitor si necesita multa voință. Daca nu, increderea se distruge complet. De aceea foarte multi se simt secati si goi cand dragostea dispare.

Multi dintre cei care primesc o promovare la locul de munca, se bucura enorm la gandul ca vor reusi sa schimbe lumea, dar cand încep să lucreze și să întâmpine greutatile functiei, se gândesc cu jind la zilele de dinainte și își doresc sa le fie mai usor.

Progresul doare. Cresterea te face sa suferi. Dezvoltarea ne stoarce lacrimile. Motivația e de unica folosință, pentru ca apoi intervine vointa de a continua procesul de dezvoltare.

Primavara

In scoala generala, oracolul era foarte popular si ma hotarasem sa imi si eu unul ca sa aflu daca fata de care imi placea, ma simpatizeaza. Imi amintesc cum Aida, o colega, m-am invatat cum ce intrebari trebuie sa pun ca sa primesc raspunsul dorit. Asa ca intr-o zi, mi-am luat inima in dinti si i-am dat Anei oracolul.
In liceu am incercat sa tin un jurnal si imi amintesc ca imi treceam activitatile zilnice intr-o agenda pe care o primisem de la mama.
Anii au trecut si acele cuvinte au ramas pierdute pe niste foi ratacite in debara. Multe dintre aceste amintiri s-au uitat.

Ador primavara. Este anotimpul meu preferat. In facultate am fost invatati sa nu avem lucruri preferate, dar nu ma pot abtine: ADOR PRIMAVARA! O iubesc! As vrea sa fie primavara tot anul.